Wednesday, February 23, 2011

Be gratefull...LOVE

Too many why's in people's lifes...too many unanswered questions...when are we going to realize that we have to stop asking and start living? Sometimes too late, sometimes in the right moment. The important thing is to realize that there will always be something we won't know or understand. All we have to do is to accept it, deal with it and if you don't have the patience, leave it. It's easy, life is simple. We are making it complicated, we make things or situations seem hard. We don't realize how short is one's life and how important is to accomplish something in each one of it. We have to live our lives to the fullest, have no regrets, no hardfeelings, no unneccesarry stress...we have to enjoy our ups, but also our downs, our flights and also our falls, because the only thing they do, is making us grow stronger and they keep us fighting for whatever it is important to us.
  If everything was simple and easy to get, no one would try, no one would appreciate it, they will take things for granted and that's the biggest mistake someone can do. We have to be thankful for every little thing that comes in our way, because everything is a test or a lesson. The more you have, the most you'll get. So start enjoying your life, stop being mad, upset or blue, it will lead you nowhere. Be thankful for your friends...even if you have only one, worship him. Be thankful for every sunny or rainy day. Be thankful for being loved. Be thankful you have a place to stay, a house, because, later, it might turn into a home. Be thankful you have a family, be thankful for every breath of air you take. Be thankful for being hole, be thankful for your every quality, that you might not realise. Be grateful for a  fight, it will bring light to a problem. Be thankful you get to see another sunrise. Be grateful for every single aspect of your life.
  If you do so, you'll find happiness sooner than you've expected, you'll live your life like everyday is unique and good and meaningfull.
  Enough is enough. Do something right now. Appreciate all the small things. Love with all your heart and then suffer, cry your soul out and then fall in love again. Don't you ever stop loving. Love is the most powerful weapon against hate, anger, war, racism, discrimination. Love gives you wings, butterflies, emotions...love can lift you up and also bring you down, but only to lift you up again.
  Life without love is not living. It's a prison of our own mind, it's a hospital with too many patients, it's worthless.
  Love a tree, love a river, love a butterfly, love weed, love the color of the sky, the smell of the sea and forest, the sound of a river, the touch of the grass, the skin's softness of your lover, the embrace of a friend, the affection of an animal. Love everything around you, love true and unconditionally. Love like your life depended on it.
  LOVE, LOVE, LOVE...and hope...never stop hoping...hope is the thing that keeps us going...hope is the last thing standing on the battlefield in a war...hope is the last thing standing in many situations....

Tuesday, February 15, 2011

Durere vs Sinceritate

   
Lumea este pe zi ce trece mai nefericita, din motive, uneori inexistente, motive voit exacerbate. Gandeste-te ca totul in viata se intampla cu un motiv. Poate, pe moment, pare nedrept si dureros si poate asa este, dar din acestea preluam invataturi daca deschidem ochii si mintea. Uneori, durerea este buna, te maturizeza, te face sa intelegi unele lucruri si sa vezi lumea altfel, daca stii cum sa te folosesti de ea. Trebuie sa inveti sa te detasezi, sa treci peste. Trebuie sa ai vointa de a merge mai departe, fiindca puterea exista in fiecare dintre noi, indiferent ca este in stare latenta sau activa, alegerea este a noastra.
   Noi, oamenii, in general, ar trebui sa fim mai sinceri, in primul rand cu noi insine. Daca mintim o persoana, practic ne mintim singuri. Ce poate fi mai frumos decat un sentiment pur? Exprimarea lui sincera fie verbala, fie non-verbala. Adevarul doare uneori, dar ne elibereaza si este un cadou pentru sufletul si mintea individului. Vom simti adevarata fericire cand cortinele vor cadea, cand zidurile vor fi daramate si mastile inlaturate. Fericirea este, intr-adevar, peste tot, in noi si chiar in cele mai mici lucruri pe care suntem prea orbiti sa le vedem.
   Trebuie sa realizam ca nu suntem niste marionete controlate de ate, ci suntem proprii nostri stapani. Tot ce trebuie sa facem este sa ne trezim: sa ne apreciem pentru ceea ce suntem...sa ne bucuram de lucrurile marunte...sa lasam durerea sa se strecoare pe langa noi...sa oferim un zambet, o vorba buna...sa iubim sincer, neconditionat, sa iertam...SA SIMTIM!